I ask because I love the look and specs of the Subaru WRX sti but I cant drive a manual. I can learn but other people in my family are gonna be using it too and they are not going to learn to drive a manual.
they dont make a manual for a reason: it completely defeats the purpose of the car. THe STi is made as a livable racecar.
learn to drive a manual. itll not only make you a better driver, but its 100x more fun, and it will keep your family members from abusing your car. everyone should learn to drive a stick. Its really not that hard, and its an extremely valuable tool.
and once you get it, take it to a local BMWCCA or porsche club of america (or other track driving school) Drivers education day at least once. If you dont, youll never appreciate what the car has to offer.
If youre just going to drive it on the street, either just buy a WRX (no need for what the STi offers on the street), or buy something inexpensive and american with a large motor (pontiac GTO comes to mind). Youll never need (or be able to enjoy) the stis handling on the street.
You should learn how to drive an M/T, it's not too hard, and it's a pretty useful skill.